Flirting might be defined as the delicate art of toying with assumed attractions, of trifling with desires, or as a fun and creative way of discovering just who the other person is and what they feel for you. It might… but for the Dutch it’s another story.

True to their pragmatic selves, the Dutch flirt in a way that resemble WTO negotiations. Little is left to the unknown. Once chemistry is confirmed both express their agendas and negotiations can begin. Location and time of next date, some go as far as stating what they expect and what the other should expect. After a few dates negotiations include the common question: “My house or your house?” But also include local specificities such as: Do you have a bike? Will you carry me in the back of yours?

In the end, the Dutch, like most others, meet, talk, date, fall in and out of love, fight, break up, marry, divorce and have kids. The difference is in the amount of negotiation each step requires.